Unsure of what to do with your life?

So you're in your late 20's or early 30's and you have no idea what you want to do with your life. Your friends are getting more and more successful while you get more and more confused.

You might be having a quarter-life crisis...and it's more common now than ever before.

Don't be alarmed, you don't need to have it all figured out to get started!

Here's what you can do now...

Get your energy flowing in the right direction

Maybe you don't know what you want yet in life and that's totally cool. Maybe you do know but you don't know where to start. What if you started before you knew exactly what it was going to look like?

Chances are you know what you want your life to look like (you can take notes by monitoring your envy as you scroll through Instagram). You know where you want to live, where you want to shop, how you want to spend your free time...

What if you focus more on those end-goals rather than the how? What steps can you take TODAY to live that life?

Maybe you launch an up-levelled Instagram account (personal brands are so key right now), maybe you dress up in a cute outfit and go to Starbucks with your laptop rather that watching re-runs of Sex and the City in your ratty old leggings (or was that just me?).

Be nice to yourself + let changes flow

If you're constantly being a major biotch to yourself you're never going to flow into your ideal self. You HAVE GOT to love yourself.

So many women don't start their dream careers until much later in life. You're fine, trust me. 

If you commit to writing down 5 things you love about yourself every day, you will be shocked at how quickly you start to turn into the girl of your dreams. 

You will never lose weight if you hate your body, and you will never up-level to your best self if you disrespect your current self. Focus on the L-O-V-E you have for yourself and watch it grow!

Set goals and learn how to manifest them

Goals are nothing unless you believe you can achieve them. I'm not saying you should set small + easy goals, I am saying you should set big-ass goals and start to realize how possible they are for you. 

I was able to double my income in 4 months of launching my coaching business. If I didn't believe I could do that, I never would have made the investment to get started. I would still be in my 9-5, slaving away for a bunch of executives to get rich when I could barely pay my bills. 

If I can do it, you can do it! 

Know the difference between your passion and your purpose

I'm passionate about fashion, but my purpose is to serve others and help them along their path of self-development. I went to fashion school, worked many jobs in the industry (got paid next to nothing) and then realize I was not fulfilled

Most of us are put here to support and encourage others who've been through the same sh*t we have.

What is your offering to the universe?

Make big moves + TRUST

Make a commitment to yourself, right here right now (seriously, take a moment and do it...grab a pen and paper and write the following), saying "I commit to moving my energy towards my purpose, believing and trusting that it's possible and that I deserve it, and crushing my big goals"

What's your first big move? I DARE YOU TO DO IT TODAY:

Your first big move will help you manifest rewards from the Universe. Make it happen today!

+ Contact someone who has what you want
+ Set up a call with a coach to strategize your plan (You can set up a free 45 min call with me if you feel ready to take the leap :) CLICK HERE)
+ Sign up for that course/program to get you to the next level

Floundering around and thinking "one day I'll do this.." is not going to get you anywhere. I know this because that's what I did for three years with my first business.

You don't need to have it all figured out right now, but starting is your first step! 

I dare you to start today!

xo sending love,


Amber-Lee Schneider4 Comments