HOW YOUR EXCUSES ARE SCREWING YOU OVER
Today we are putting and end to the no-good excuses that are holding you back from reaching your goals!
I mean those REALLY JUICY GOALS locked away in the back of your mind, that you didn't even write on your goal list for 2016 because you don't think you are capable of reaching them.
A very wise man once said "I believe you can speak things into existence." Alright, it was Jay-Z that said that but he is frickin' wise.
That means that all of your excuses, complaints and gripes about your life are GETTING WORSE every time you whisper/yell/write/think them.
It also means that if you speak your dreams and your goals as if you have already reach them, you can make them happen.
SO LET'S CUT OUT THESE EXCUSES!
"I don't have enough money" or "You need to have money to make money"
My friend, I am living proof that this is not true. So is Opera, Sarah Jessica Parker and Mariah Carry, to name a few.
You have to realize that there are unconventional ways of making/receiving money, and that it can happen for you.
You have to change your money mindset! If you believe you are poor you will be. If you are grateful for what you have, you will see the money start to flow in.
It is not entirely that easy and requires some digging into your thoughts and past money stories, but it works.
Turn "I can't afford it" into "How can I afford it".
You cannot put a dollar figure on your dreams.
As soon as I was able to let go of my money qualms, I felt rich, and started seeing money come in unexpected ways. You can do it too.
Start living parts of your dream life today. If in your dream life you get your nails down or you get a blow out before a party, treat yourself and act like you already have the other pieces too.
Replace your excuses with a list at the end of every day, explaining how you lived your dream lifestyle.
Here is an example "Today I go my nails done, had a bubble bath, ate a healthy dinner and rocked my new lipstick..those are some of the things I do frequently to feel amazing"
Think about how those things make you feel and carry that feeling with you!
"I am too busy"
Another one of my favorite quotes is "You have the same hours in the day as Beyonce". Enough said.
Sure you don't have a personal chef, hair and make up team and house keeper like she does, BUT the point is that you can ALWAYS make time for reaching your dreams.
All you have to do is start and you will be shocked
at how much time, energy and passion starts to flow through you!
Time-blocking is also huge. Make your Google Calendar your best friend.
Use the 2 minute rule. Every day schedule 2 minutes to start on your goals. You will end up spending more time on them. Scheduling only 2 minutes will trick the overwhelm and insecurities right out of you!
"I don't have enough education" or "I am not experienced enough"
If we are talking career or business goals, this is a really big insecurity.
This excuse held me back for years BECAUSE I WAS LETTING IT.
When I was in the corporate world, I was the quiet girl at the meetings who was too afraid to speak my idea because I didn't go to University (no idea how that ever made sense to me but it did).
Then some egotistical DB would say what I was going to say and steal my thunder! But guess what, that DB got the promotions, the raises and the praise. I did not.
This excuse also caused me to sit on my business idea for 3 years and do nothing about it.
Don't make the same mistakes that I did.
If this excuse gets you down, what you can do to switch your mindset is to focus on what you are good at.
I promise you are the better at things or even the best at somethings. Pick what you are passionate about and go from there!
There are so many things that ONLY YOU can teach people.
"I will start when....x"
Honey, there is never a perfect time to start anything.
Once you get that raise, get that new job, get a little money saved, lose 5 lbs...you are still going to be as scared/insecure as you were before and start grasping for something else to make you feel "ready".
You are never ready, you will never experience "the perfect time".
"I don't have enough support"
I used to cringe when I heard people say "It's not what you know, it's who you know", because I thought I didn't really know anybody that could help me reach my goals.
There are two amazing ways to get support:
1) Start doing what you love and the people will come
2) Hire an expert. These days you can can hire someone for pretty much anything.
If you want to drop a few pounds, hire a trainer. If you want to eat healthier, hire a nutritionist to create a meal plan for you. If you want to start a business or enhance your lifestyle, hire a coach.
People that are EXPERTS are out there waiting to help you! Let them!
Now go back to excuse #1, "I don't have enough money" and check yourself!
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